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1、Gethimtotreatyouwithmeloverespect如何讓他對(duì)你更愛(ài)更敬如何讓他對(duì)你更愛(ài)更敬Haveyoueverwonderedwhysomemencontinuetotreattheirwomanlikeaprincessevenafterthey’vebeentogetherfyearsTheystillrememberallthosespecialoccasionevenseemtopayfullattention

2、toherwhenthetwoofthemaretogether.Somebehavialscientistsbelievethatitispossiblefmostwomentoencouragetheirman’sbehavitomoveinthatdirection.HowaboutyourrelationshipcoulditusealittleencouragementinthisareaGettingyourmantosho

3、wyoumeloverespectThesecrettounlockingthissamedegreeofloveaffectionfromyourmanisprobablysomethingyou’veneverconsideredbefe.Ithasitsbasisinbehavialscienceonceyouundersthowitwksyoucanliterallyreprogramthewayyourmanrespondst

4、oyou.Weallrunavarietyofprogrammedresponsepatternsthatautomaticallytriggercertainreactionstofamiliarsituations.Theseresponsepatternsshtcutthethinkingprocesscreateadirectlinkfromtriggertobehavi.That’swhywedon’thavetothinka

5、boutthingslikeusingthekeytostartthecaransweringthephonewhenwehearthatringingsound.WhenemotionaltriggersbackfireOncethishappensitisgameoverhewon’tlistentoanythingyousay.Thisiswhenarguingfingerpointingreplacereasonableconv

6、ersationasbothpartnersdefendtheirpositionbyblamingtheother.Notaprettypicture!3StepstomeloveadeeperemotionalconnectionSincebothpartnershavetheseemotionaltriggerseliminatingthemcansetthestagefamelovingconnectedrelationship

7、.Butbefetheycanbeeliminatedtheyneedtobeidentifiedthendealtwithinaneffectiveway.Here’sasimple3stepprocesstoaccomplishthat.1.Identifythespecificbehavifromyourperspective.Thinkofafewspecificactionsthatyouknowsethimoff.Isitt

8、hetoneofyourvoiceperhapsit’sacertainphraseyouusewhendiscussingasensitivetopicTrytofindtheconnectionbetweenyouractionswdsnegativeresponse.Takeyourbestshotwritealistofthingsyouthinkitmightbe.2.Nowfromhisperspective.Askhimt

9、ohelpyoufigureoutwhatyoudothatsetshimoff.Hemaybehesitanttotellyousoassurehimthatyoureallywanttoknow.Thenlethimtalkresisttheurgetogetdefensive.It’spossiblethathe’snotevenawareofaspecificlinkbetweenwhatyou’redoinghisrespon

10、se.Ifthat’sthecasethenjustgowithyourlist.3.Startavoidingthosewdsactions.Simplyeliminatethemfromyourlifesoyounolongertriggerthatunhealthyresponsepatternseewhathappens.Whenyoutakeawaythetriggerthegunwon’tfire.Thismayinvolv

11、ealittletrialerrbutyoucanrelyonhisresponsetoguideyoureffts.ArelationshipisatwowaystreetIamwellawarethatthismethodputstheinitialburdenonyoubutithastostartsomewhere.Oncethoseolddestructivepatternshavebeenbrokenhehaslearned

12、totreatyouwithmeloverespectitwillbealoteasiertohelphimseethevalueofavoidingcertainbehavisthatgetunderyourskin.It’sashamethatnobodyreallytalksaboutthistechniquebecauseit’sextremelypowerfulwksinalmostanysituation.Ilearnedi

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